Ok…. so that now that I have figured out to activate my confidence button.. I feel like I can’t stop pressing it. It feels good when we feel great…and it feels not so good when we feel sad. I’ve learned that both can only bring out the best in YOU! You are who you choose to be! My greatest inspiration.
So now that I am more aware of what activates this energy. I get more excited to think that the world really is at my finger tips. NIKE knew what they meant when they said… “Just do it”… the moment of hesitation will be the fabric that weaves together your strength! It’s a recipe that you have to cook up every day…
There are things I have to do.. reminders.. things that make me happy. They say, do what makes you happy. Laughing as I say this because the more you can believe in your ability to create the life you want, the more things start to change. This last year has been very emotional for me. Not only did my life have to change, but there were sacrifices that had to be made in order to create that change. In those moments you have to ask yourself what will be for the greater good? I had to choose sacrifice because the greater good of all involved had been at the mercy of a boiling pot; emotions. The journey to finding a deeper level of strength and focusing more on my passions. Life. Family. Understanding. Forgiveness. Why being the woman I am today is because of the choices I had to make over the course of my life. I am 36 and I feel confident, level headed, strong and full of an energy that I want to share with other women. The ability to empower one another. We are not in competition. There is enough room in this world for all of us to be successful and live a meaningful life. I mention this because it is apart of what helps activate my button.
You might laugh.. but here is one of my indisposed button pressing confessions. I am seriously one of those women that stands in front of the mirror and I look for the things about my body that I feel sexy about. TRUST ME.. I used to look at my body and think other wise. It’s important to compliment the people you surround yourself with. If those people provide you a little bit of happiness, in any way. Then you should pay them a compliment… That also activates my button!
Say it, believe it… manifest it. If you have ever played softball with me. Then I need not to explain. However… for those of you who do not know. My energy at softball is that of an obnoxious teen. Look.. here is my point. If you believe that you are a sexy goddess! You will be one… yeah I know you laugh.. but it’s true. My sex life is better than it ever has been. I never realized how much of my self was really missing or how unhappy I was with myself. I’ve allowed my past lovers to dictate my own self worth…. You can become a product of your environment if you let it, This has since changed. I can’t sing, but I love karaoke. I can’t dance (so I’m told) but I love to dance. The more I started to love the korky things about myself.. the sexier I feel. The way I see myself in the mirror has since changed and I feel wonderful.
You may not realize this but we are always evolving. Evolving into something else… good, bad or indifferent, we are still evolving. Understanding and applying this also activates my confidence button.
For the record… I have no shame in admitting my struggles, my success or my fears. Learning that talking about them actually helps to make my decisions regarding my next move or plan. My next date. My next project. My next visit with the wise ones. I say… then believing it. Which then manifests itself. Crazy concept but it works….
Another thing that activates my confidence button!